Compared to other types of breast cancer, lobular breast cancer:
Has different symptoms than other more common types of breast cancer.
May be harder to see on mammogram because it does not cause a firm or distinct lump.
May not be diagnosed until the cancer is large enough to cause symptoms.
Is more likely to involve both breasts and can reoccur many years after the first diagnosis.
Can spread to different-than-typical sites like the stomach, intestine, ovary, kidneys, ureters and eye.
The reason we are having this conversation is not to scare you but just so you are aware and to guide you to take the necessary steps to receiving the right treatment and adhering to recommeded treatment plan by your care team.
This story is in commemoration of the World Cancer Day, an initiative of the Union for International Cancer Control (UICC )
So, we are telling the story to celebrate, encourage and give hope to all cancer patients, particularly breast cancer patients.
It was too much of a coincidence that my daughter, Bukky and I share the same birthday. I was to clock 40 and she, 24. We planned to celebrate our birthdays with funfair before the unexpected happened.
I was diagnosed with a breast cancer . I struggled to take it in my strides to no avail. I was almost eaten up with anxiety as my mind was full of various thoughts. Being a single parent, I wondered how my daughter would cope if the worst happened . At her age, I couldn’t bring myself to see her as an adult.
When I paid a visit to the doctor, I asked him if I would survive it because I have heard many negative stories about breast cancer especially in our clime where health care delivery is poor.
I had hoped for a blissful marriage before this challenge that seemed to further dim my hope. Each time my eyes came in contact with my daughter’s breasts , my heart skipped a beat as I had lost my mother to breast cancer at a tender age.
I didn’t cease to pray for us until I had a successful mastectomy. Of course, with the financial support of friends and family members. After my treatment, I nursed the idea of having a breast cancer foundation .
My daughter and I had a big bash at my full recovery. It was double celebrations. We had both invited and uninvited guests. Friends came with their friends and providence brought Darlington to me. One thing led to another and in a few weeks, he proposed in spite of my condition, as I gave full disclosure to him with regard to my health status.
I will like to take a break here and say a big thank you to Pink & MetaPink Stars Cancer Support group ! I am grateful to God for the Pink & MetaPink Stars Cancer Support Group . As a breast cancer patient, I got so much support from the community ! I made new friends and found other sisters going through the same thing as I was at the time.
Back to Darlington💖 ! We got married. He paid the bill for my breast reconstruction and my daughter and I moved to his house where he lives with his only daughter, Kkelomo, as a widower.
We became a united family. I decided to bring my two daughters up to speed about breast cancer awareness as I acknowledge that early detection is a surefire way to fight breast cancer. Walking closely with my social worker at Amorvard, my self confidence is boosted and I am thankful for the eye opener I got to see , acknowledge and take good advantage of all my network of support.
I got them to do mamogram checks as young as they were even though they were not really vulnerable to breast cancer until they will be 40 years and above. Many diiseases mutate as the world changes- that recurred in my mind
I advised them among other things, to maintain healthy diet and weight, reduce stress, limit alcohol consumption. I also taught them how to examine the breast for likely symptoms which may include nausea, weight loss, skin irritation, breast or nipple pain and discharge, swelling or thickening of the nipple. I just didn’t take chances. Bukky and Kkelomo that I care so much about, gossip and call me “carcinophobic Mama “. “My name is Tola ” , I often retorted.
I am glad that I gave them guides on how to check their breast for signs and symptoms and I hope they teach their unborn children too as they are happily married leaving my darling, Darlington and I to enjoy a blissful marriage like a dream come true.
The extremely vulnerable people with cancer are more at risk of being seriously ill if they develop the COVID-19 infection.
If you are extremely vulnerable, you should stay alert to prevent yourself from getting ill. Stay aware of the numbers of infections in your area and follow the advice for extremely vulnerable people in your part of the country. In general, you should:
Stay at home
limit contact with others outside your household
Follow strict social distancing – stay at least 2 metres apart or 1 metre with a face covering
Wash your hands regularly or use a hand sanitizer alcohol gel
Wear a face covering inside shops and on public transport, unless you are exempt
According to the Nigeria Center for Disease Control , right now in Nigeria, the numbers are increasing ! People in this group will need to follow particular measures called shielding. Your GP or healthcare team might ask you to shield again depending on your situation.
Cancer patients in the extremely vulnerable group include those:
having radical radiotherapy for lung cancer
Those with cancer of the blood or bone marrow such as leukaemia, lymphoma or myeloma who are at any stage of treatment
If you are having immunotherapy or other continuing antibody treatments for cancer
If you are having other targeted cancer treatments which can affect the immune system, such as protein kinase inhibitors or PARP inhibitors
Those who have had bone marrow or stem cell transplants in the last 6 months, or who are still taking immunosuppression drugs
If you are unsure what treatment you are having and whether you are in one of these groups and you are finding it difficult to speak to your care team you can use our patient navigator service , for guidance and support.
Fine-needle aspiration cytology (FNAC), core needle biopsy (CNB) and vacuum assisted breast biopsy (VABB) represent the current methods of choice for pathological diagnosis, both with their specific advantages and limitations.
We know these terms can be confusing for our patients ! Let’s discuss this in our upcoming webinar🤩
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Our cancer support group is the patients number one choice .
We work through the treatment journey with our patients , right from the point of diagnosis as they journey through survivorship.
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The holidays can be a tough time to stick to healthy eating goals. But if your traditions involve baking, a few simple ingredient changes can help you cut some of the sugar, fat, and calories – without sacrificing the taste. This year, make some new baking traditions by adapting your family recipes with these tips:
Substitute whole-wheat flour for up to half of the white flour called for in the recipe.
Make muffins using oatmeal, bran, or whole-wheat flour.
Reduce the fat by ¼ (if a recipe calls for 1 cup of oil, use ¾ cup). You can also reduce the sugar by ¼.
If making sweet breads, such as banana bread or zucchini bread, cut the oil in half and replace with an equal amount of applesauce, mashed banana, or even canned pumpkin.
If a recipe calls for nuts, use half the amount and toast the nuts (whole, not chopped). This intensifies the flavor and saves on calories.
Replace half the eggs with egg whites, using 2 egg whites per egg. (If a recipe calls for 2 eggs, use 1 whole egg and 2 egg whites.)
Grease the pan with non-stick spray instead of butter.
Substitute evaporated skim milk for whole milk or cream.